Posted By: J.L. on 21-04-2008 18:09
I have always had a problem premature ejaculating. Most likely due to the fact that my parents were always against me being in any relationships or situations with girls in general, whether it was the fourth grade dance or the movies. I have always had a guilty conscience about sex. I recently started dating a girl that is very sexually charged. The fact that she was more experienced than me, just made me uncomfortable. My only goal during sex was pleasuring her. In turn, I had such a high anxiety about coming too early, I couldn't help but focus all my energy on what my dick was doing, and sure enough, twenty seconds later... In the end she wasn't satisfied, and neither was I. Two days ago, I purchased Revolutionary Sex online and read the first 100 pages. Last night (and this morning), I had the best sex of my entire life. It was great. I would say the best thing I came away with after reading was the general attitude I had about sex. [Alex's] personable writing presence (something doctors and therapists really miss when writing things in this subject) set the stage for a major priority change that I desperately needed. Realizing that the purpose of sex is for an intimate connection, being there with her, right then, in that single moment. The breathing method really helped broaden my focus to her whole body and helped me relax, very good advice.
Posted By: JD on 12-03-2008 17:50
The sexual revolution died out in the 60's (some would say the 70's) but sex hasn't died out in America altogether. Alex Allman has done the "community" an enormous favor by starting off where other seduction gurus end - the entrance to the bedroom. Through a mix of anatomy, physiology, psychology and plain old English, his manual breaks down in simple terms the basics of human sexuality. Myths and urban legends are destroyed, and only real, scientifically verifiable data is presentd in a lucid text. While it is not the most definitive textbook of human sexuality that has ever been written, it IS the starting point of a journey, an exploration, into a subject we have ignored for far too long. Recommended for every male - even if you don't have anyone to show your skills off just yet.
